Imagine: One of your friends introduces you to someone and the two of you start messaging each other. You two talk and you find you’ve got a lot in common. You decide to go out for a coffee date to break the ice. It goes very well, and then the question of a second date comes up. That goes well just like the first date, and you slowly start to break off contact with other people you were chatting with. Hmm, this seem to have potential.
Now, here you are, seven dates in and wondering if he’s feeling the same way about you. You want to shift things to the next level and start a relationship, but you don’t know if that’s the direction he’s heading. How can you tell if he’s the real deal? How can you tell if he wants the same thing as you do?