Ouch! Houston Matchmakers Reveal 5 Signs She’s Not into You

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Does it feel like woman you were dating isn’t interested in you anymore? Are you trying to figure out whether to keep pursuing her or if all hope is lost? You’re not alone, many single men in Houston face the same dating dilemma as you. As the best Houston matchmakers, we’re here to save the day.

Let’s start out by saying that when a woman is not interested in a guy, she will give out signals. And don’t get ahead of yourself here, because the signs are a little different than when a guy is not interested in a woman. Hmm, come to think of it, that can be a good thing or bad thing.

Women can often take more time figuring things out because they are trying to determine whether a guy is right for them. There are times when a woman just wants to have fun and she may not go around announcing it.

If it feels like she’s no longer interested in you, well, your intuition could be right. As much as she wants to let you know, she might not know how to tell you. And as much it’s going to sting, it’s better to find out now if she’s not into you anymore. After all, why waste your time?

Today, our Houston matchmakers here at Houston Singles Dating Service are going to show you the top five signs she’s not that into you anymore.

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  1. She responds with one-word answers.

So you have been hanging around this woman and think things are going okay, but you aren’t so sure lately. Well, one pretty big indicator is how she responds to your texts. When you ask her how her day is going, does she go into long explanations, or does she answer with just one word? If she only gives you one-word answers, then chances are she doesn’t really care to share her day with you. If you’re not sure, do a little test and get the answer you’re looking for.

  1. She says she forgot to text you back.

Boom! We can all probably agree that it’s rare that a woman forgets to text back. And she certainly wouldn’t forget to get back to the guy she’s into, right?  If a girl says, “I’m so sorry, I forgot to text you back,” then you can be sure she just doesn’t really care about you. If it’s only happened once, don’t jump to conclusions just yet. But if it seems to happen often, you have your answer.

  1. She won’t give you a straight answer about seeing you again.

If you keep asking her out and she is indecisive about her plans, it’s probably because she doesn’t really want to date you. Imagine texting a girl about when you can see her again and you get a response that simply says, “soon.” Yikes, that’s not good news for you.

There are a lot of code words that women that basically mean, “never again.” If you get a response that says, I don’t know, I’m so busy lately, soon, or we’ll see, you might as well save your energy and make it easier on her. Our Houston matchmakers encourage you to take her hint and save your time and energy for someone who is into you in a romantic sense.

  1. She says she’s busy with work but is always out and about.

Worse yet than beating around the bush and not giving you a straight answer is giving you excuses all the time. Does she always tell you she’s so busy with work? Has she told you she couldn’t do something then you find out she’s really out on the town? Does she post social get togethers on Facebook when she was home sick? This says it all.

  1. She wants to be single for now.

If a woman tells you that she’s not ready to be in a relationship, that’s a huge red flag. Women generally love being in a relationship. If she says, “I think I just need to be single for a while, I’ve always moved from one relationship to the next,” it’s a bad sign. She’s basically telling you that she loves relationships because she has been in so many, but she has no interest in being in a relationship with you. Ouch! We know that hurts. But at least you know how she feels now, right?

If after reading this article you realize that she’s just not that into you anymore, we’re sending our condolences to you. Just dust yourself off and get back in the Houston dating scene until you find someone who is interested in dating you.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single women in Houston, contact us today and let us help you find the woman who is meant for you. Let the best Houston matchmakers find you true love!

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