Is He Husband Material? Find Out with La Porte Matchmakers
Lately we’ve been hearing more and more about what makes a woman the ideal wife. Our La Porte matchmakers here at Houston Singles Dating Service know the answers to this. After all, that’s our specialty – finding marriage-minded single men in Houston their dream woman. But wait a second here… No one is talking about what makes a guy husband material. So that’s what we’d like to do today. Whether you’re a woman wondering how to tell a guy is hubby material or a guy who wants to ensure he’s the kind of guy women are looking for, we’ve got your back.
How to Know a Guy Is Hubby Material
Today, our La Porte matchmakers are going to reveal the top things that make him husband material.
- He can solve problems.
Life is complicated at times and really hard to deal with. We mean, just this week, our microwave broke here at our office and we had some ac problems, as well. You need someone who knows how to problem solve with you. The last thing you want is for your husband to be a part of the problem instead of part of the solution. You need a partner who wants to help you through anything in life, even those problems like your AC going out on a hot summer day.
Okay, okay, calm down, guys. We’re not saying you have to be Mr. Handyman and know how to fix everything. But you should know how to handle stressful situations calmly and come up with the best solution – even if it is hiring someone to come fix it for you.
- You’re best friends.
There’s seems to be a lot of different ideas about whether or not your spouse should be your best friend. We’re not suggesting that he should be the one you have wine nights with every weekend or that he has to go with you to get your mani/pedis, but he does need to be your good friend. When you’ve got the stomach flu, he’s going to be the one that runs to your aid to hand your snotty self more tissues or the one who runs to the store to get your feminine products. Not every moment is going to be romantic or sexy so make sure you can stand each other during the not-so-hot times.
- He can make you laugh.
Unless you want to take the entire rest of your life too seriously, we would suggest finding someone who you can share a good laugh with. He doesn’t have to be a stand-up comedian, but he should at least know how to make you laugh.
If you have senses of humor that jive, that will make the rest of your lives much less stressful. Laughter is important, so you definitely want to find a man you can relax and have a ball with.
- He doesn’t do something you hate.
We realize that you’re probably thinking “duh,” right? But hear us out. So many women marry men that do something they hate. The thing can be anything, really. But whatever it is, it’s something you just don’t like.
Picture staying out all night with the boys, playing video games every weekend, or smoking. Whatever it is, you don’t like it. But for some unknown reason, you expect that once you get married, he’s suddenly not going to do that anymore. Obviously, he keeps doing it because it’s what he likes to do. And let’s face it, you put up with it so long he thinks it’s okay. Find a guy that doesn’t have a thing that you expect him to change because that will never work out.
- He knows how to be in a relationship.
This doesn’t mean that you’re his only interest. It’s good for him to have his own career, hobbies, interests and friends. But if you’re looking for a life partner, you should be on the lookout for someone who knows how to be in a relationship, someone who knows how to treat you right.
There are a lot of things that make a guy husband material. And while every woman is looking for something specific herself, these are things every woman should be on the lookout for on her search. Here at Houston Singles, we know firsthand what those things are and can help you find them.
Single and looking to meet quality single men in Houston? Contact our La Porte matchmakers today and let us lead the way. Let us help you find a marriage-minded man who shares long-term compatibility with you.
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